Forgiveness

This week for our Family Ministry Moment, we are focusing on forgiveness. Forgiveness is often easier said than done. When we’ve been hurt, our natural reaction can be to hold on to that pain or even seek revenge.

Within our families, conflict is inevitable. Feelings get hurt. Frustrations rise. Words are spoken that we wish we could take back. But when forgiveness isn’t extended, small issues can quickly grow into much bigger problems. Unforgiveness creates distance and division in our homes. It can also teach our children—whether we realize it or not—that holding grudges with friends or others is acceptable.

Epistle to the Colossians 3:13 reminds us:
“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

What a powerful reminder. We forgive not because it’s easy, but because we have been forgiven. As parents and leaders in our homes, we have the opportunity to model what God has done for us—showing forgiveness to our spouses, our children, and others.

Consider asking your kids:

• Who do you need to forgive today?
  
  
• Why is it important for us to forgive others?
  
  
• Is it sometimes hard to forgive? Why do you think that is?
  
  

When forgiveness becomes a regular practice in our homes, it strengthens our relationships and reflects the heart of Christ to our families.